A radical approach to Relationship & Sex therapy.
Love is not enough.
You also need personal insight, emotional regulation AND intimacy skills if you want great relationships.
A radical approach to Relationship & Sex therapy.
Love is not enough.
You also need personal insight, emotional regulation AND intimacy skills if you want great relationships.
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Are you ready for immediate and lasting relationship change - even in the most fractured relationship?
Frequent conflict? Broken trust? Defensiveness? Emotional disconnect? Sexual disconnect? Infidelity? Or just looking for more from your partner? These are just a few reasons couples may find themselves in need of help.
We practice a radical approach to couples therapy, which goes deep into understanding the negative patterns in your relationship. We bring you into authentic connection with yourselves and each other, and teach you the skills needed for an entirely new way of relating.
If you want to sit in a therapy office year after year making little progress, go right ahead. If you want immediate, meaningful, lasting transformation - we're really glad you're here.
Are you ready for immediate and lasting relationship change - even in the most fractured relationship?
Frequent conflict? Broken trust? Defensiveness? Emotional disconnect? Sexual disconnect? Infidelity? Or just looking for more from your partner? These are just a few reasons couples may find themselves in need of help.
We practice a radical approach to couples therapy, which goes deep into understanding the negative patterns in your relationship. We bring you into authentic connection with yourselves and each other, and teach you the skills needed for an entirely new way of relating.
If you want to sit in a therapy office year after year making little progress, go right ahead. If you want immediate, meaningful, lasting transformation - we're really glad you're here.
Free resources: Talks & eBooks...
Watch On-Demand
Relationship Masterclass
Discover why relationships are hard in today's world
Plot your relationship matrix recovery and get your game plan for relational joy.
Download
The Couples eBook
Discover your Couple Type (which of the #7 are you?)
Uncover the patterns that keep you stuck (FYI - there's good and bad news...)
Vaginal Atrophy Symptoms & Treatment
Vaginal Atrophy effects 80% of peri-menopausal women
Exploring incredibly successful hormonal & non-hormonal treatments
Courses & working with us...
Free resources: Talks & eBooks...
Watch On-Demand
Relationship Masterclass
Discover why relationships are hard in today's world
Plot your relationship matrix recovery and get your game plan for relational joy.
Download
The Couples eBook
Discover your Couple Type (which of the #7 are you?)
Uncover the patterns that keep you stuck (FYI - there's good and bad news...)
Vaginal Atrophy Symptoms & Treatment
Vaginal Atrophy effects 80% of peri-menopausal women
Exploring incredibly successful hormonal & non-hormonal treatments
Courses & working with us...
Sensitive LIVE
Emotional Mastery Course
Emotional Mastery for deeply feeling people.
Break free from shame, remove suffering & create a life worth loving.
The Pleasure Possibility
At Home Retreat
Healing sexual discomfort & loss of libido before, during & after menopause
A sexual rediscovery & exquisite pleasure journey.
Book Your
Diagnostics Call
90-minutes focused on your love life.
Get Your Relational Plan
For the relationship you want to create.
Sensitive LIVE
Emotional Mastery Course
Emotional Mastery for deeply feeling people.
Break free from shame, remove suffering & create a life worth loving.
The Pleasure Possibility
At Home Retreat
Healing sexual discomfort & loss of libido before, during & after menopause
A sexual rediscovery & exquisite pleasure journey.
Book Your
Diagnostics Call
90-minutes focused on your love life.
Get Your Relational Plan
For the relationship you want to create.
"Quality relationships are the single biggest factor in happiness, health & longevity.”
-The Harvard Study Of Adult Development
"Quality relationships are the single biggest factor in happiness, health & longevity.”
-The Harvard Study Of Adult Development
Meet The LoveLab Team...
Christina Cass (she/her)
Relationship Coach & Behavioural Practitioner
Style: Dynamic, engaging, passionate, insightful. Likely to draw on excessive use of fantastical metaphor, display wild hand gestures and draw terrible diagrams to drive a point home!
Background: The science of learning theory, motivation and behaviour change.
Specialism: Couples who fight, ADHD, cPTSD & codependency recovery
Dr Claire Macaulay (she/her)
Relationship Coach, Somatic Sex Educator & Medical Doctor
Style: no-bullshit, inclusive, funny, solution-focused. Infamous for being interviewed on national TV wearing no shoes. Internationally renowned as Dr Dry Fanny and loved for her laser-sharp wit.
Background: Oncologist, Sexological Bodyworker, Conflict Facilitator, Coach Supervisor
Specialism: Sexual challenges, Menopause and midlife relationships.
Meet The LoveLab Team...
Christina Cass (she/her)
Relationship Coach & Behavioural Practitioner
Style: Dynamic, engaging, passionate, insightful. Likely to draw on excessive use of fantastical metaphor, display wild hand gestures and draw terrible diagrams to drive a point home!
Background: The science of learning theory, motivation and behaviour change.
Specialism: Couples who fight, ADHD, cPTSD & codependency recovery
Dr Claire Macaulay (she/her)
Relationship Coach, Somatic Sex Educator & Medical Doctor
Style: no-bullshit, inclusive, funny, solution-focused. Infamous for being interviewed on national TV wearing no shoes. Internationally renowned as Dr Dry Fanny and loved for her laser-sharp wit.
Background: Oncologist, Sexological Bodyworker, Conflict Facilitator, Coach Supervisor
Specialism: Sexual challenges, Menopause and midlife relationships.
We take sides...
We take sides. Specifically, we take the side of relational health. Not all problems are 50:50 and we often can't see when we are the problem, and it’s hurting our relationship. We consider that it is our job to be clear with you when you are the problem by being the most out of relational health.
We are relationally focused...
Your relationship is our client.
Your relationship is the biosphere in which you live, and everything you bring to and take from it affects its quality. Helping you to create an environment that is relationaly healthy, in which both of you thrive is our therapeutic focus.
ADHD Friendly...
80% of people with ADHD are not diagnosed - and funnily enough, lots of us are in relationship! We understand the interest-based nervous system, emotional regulation challenges, sensory sensitivities, RSD, PDA, and executive function differences and what your relationship needs to thrive if it effects you - diagnosis or not!
We take sides...
We take sides. Specifically, we take the side of relational health. Not all problems are 50:50 and we often can't see when we are the problem, and it’s hurting our relationship. We consider that it is our job to be clear with you when you are the problem by being the most out of relational health.
We are relationally focused...
Your relationship is our client.
Your relationship is the biosphere in which you live, and everything you bring to and take from it affects its quality. Helping you to create an environment that is relationaly healthy, in which both of you thrive is our therapeutic focus.
ADHD Friendly...
80% of people with ADHD are not diagnosed - and funnily enough, lots of us are in relationship! We understand the interest-based nervous system, emotional regulation challenges, sensory sensitivities, RSD, PDA, and executive function differences and what your relationship needs to thrive if it effects you - diagnosis or not!
Short & intensive...
Our coaching is short, intensive and extremely effective. If you do the work, inside and outside of the coaching room, you can expect 8-16 sessions total to offer your relationship the changes you both desire. A far cry from years in the therapy making little headway and wasting your money!
Prepare for Carefrontation...
We work with both ends of the self esteem spectrum and stand in a place of loving confrontation - Carefrontation. This means supporting people to face their inadequacies, accept their impaired judgment and appreciate the impact they are having, so they can do better and be happier.
Our Coaching Style
We are mentors, consultants and coaches at LoveLab. We will tell you the truth, and will be your biggest relational champion. We will tell you explicitly what to do to fix your relationship, and hold you hand while you learn how to do it - just like we have done.
Short & intensive...
Our coaching is short, intensive and extremely effective. If you do the work, inside and outside of the coaching room, you can expect 8-16 sessions total to offer your relationship the changes you both desire. A far cry from years in the therapy making little headway and wasting your money!
Prepare for Carefrontation...
We work with both ends of the self esteem spectrum and stand in a place of loving confrontation - Carefrontation. This means supporting people to face their inadequacies, accept their impaired judgment and appreciate the impact they are having, so they can do better and be happier.
Our Coaching Style
We are mentors, consultants and coaches at LoveLab. We will tell you the truth, and will be your biggest relational champion. We will tell you explicitly what to do to fix your relationship, and hold you hand while you learn how to do it - just like we have done.
Intimacy is your birthright, and optimal state.
Relationship are some of the hardest things we ever do, no one teaches us how to do them well, and at the same time - we have never expected more from our primary partners.
As we grow up, socialisation, life, patriarchy and our lived experiences cause us to create some protective strategies as we adapted to meet expectations, stay safe and feel a sense of belonging. Unfortunately, those adaptations are often terrible for creating lasting love and desire that lasts a lifetime!
Aside from our professional qualification and experience, Claire and I know the place of relational struggle. We are only where we are today because we got help, took a long hard look at our own dysfunction, each took responsibility for our side of the street and changed the game.
We've made something incredible for ourselves and it was hard won, so hard won that we have made it our purpose to teach others how to do just that. Love is all there is, we just have to remember it.
If you know you need support, reaching out is the last decision you have to make on your own. After that - we’re in it together and your relationship has the best chance possible at becoming exceptional.
Intimacy is your birthright, and optimal state.
Relationship are some of the hardest things we ever do, no one teaches us how to do them well, and at the same time - we have never expected more from our primary partners.
As we grow up, socialisation, life, patriarchy and our lived experiences cause us to create some protective strategies as we adapted to meet expectations, stay safe and feel a sense of belonging. Unfortunately, those adaptations are often terrible for creating lasting love and desire that lasts a lifetime!
Aside from our professional qualification and experience, Claire and I know the place of relational struggle. We are only where we are today because we got help, took a long hard look at our own dysfunction, each took responsibility for our side of the street and changed the game.
We've made something incredible for ourselves and it was hard won, so hard won that we have made it our purpose to teach others how to do just that. Love is all there is, we just have to remember it.
If you know you need support, reaching out is the last decision you have to make on your own. After that - we’re in it together and your relationship has the best chance possible at becoming exceptional.
Work With Us
Are you ready to meet your extraordinary relationship on the other side of this experience? A deeply meaningful, fiercely intimate and supportive relationship is once decision away.
Work With Us
Are you ready to meet your extraordinary relationship on the other side of this experience? A deeply meaningful, fiercely intimate and supportive relationship is once decision away.
Inclusivity Statement
In order to make a statement about equality and diversity, there must first be an acknowledgment of systemic barriers that impede the progress of many people in our society. Barriers in our society, culture and, unfortunately, coaching and therapy rooms, can create imbalances of power and privilege, both unintentionally and overtly.
At Lovelab we are committed to creating an environment where the unspoken, unseen elements of our clients’ socio-economic experience can be openly shared. This way, our coaching can balance the safety and stress needed for growth, without overshooting capacity or boundaries. We might be the experts in relationships, but You are the expert on you.
You get to be you in our spaces.
LoveLab stands against minority stress and discrimination in our spaces.
We are deeply committed to creating an environment that supports inclusivity and respect for all people regardless of gender identity or expression, race, colour, neurotype, culture, religion, spiritual practice, age, socioeconomic status, perceived or actual sexual orientation, relationship status or configuration, national origin or physical and mental abilities.
Inclusivity Statement
In order to make a statement about equality and diversity, there must first be an acknowledgment of systemic barriers that impede the progress of many people in our society. Barriers in our society, culture and, unfortunately, coaching and therapy rooms, can create imbalances of power and privilege, both unintentionally and overtly.
At Lovelab we are committed to creating an environment where the unspoken, unseen elements of our clients’ socio-economic experience can be openly shared. This way, our coaching can balance the safety and stress needed for growth, without overshooting capacity or boundaries. We might be the experts in relationships, but You are the expert on you.
You get to be you in our spaces.
LoveLab stands against minority stress and discrimination in our spaces.
We are deeply committed to creating an environment that supports inclusivity and respect for all people regardless of gender identity o#JdLzYSYbUOr expression, race, colour, neurotype, culture, religion, spiritual practice, age, socioeconomic status, perceived or actual sexual orientation, relationship status or configuration, national origin or physical and mental abilities.
You are not on your own
If you find yourself longing for something different, book a Diagnostics Call with us and see what immediate, meaningful, lasting change you can create, even in the most fractured relationship.
Dr Claire & Christina x
You are not on your own
If you find yourself longing for something different, book a Diagnostics Call with us and see what immediate, meaningful, lasting change you can create, even in the most fractured relationship.
Dr Claire & Christina x
Glasgow, UK & digital worldwide
hello@the-lovelab.com
+447535 233083
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